Text 14] The Perfect Society: Four Spiritual Classes
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Without the spiritual master's order, even the  gṛhastha  should not indulge in sex life.
TEXT 12
अज्ञानाभ्यज्जनोन्मर्दस्यवलेखामिषं मधु । सगन्धतेपातंकारांस्त्यजेयुर्ये बृहद्वताः ॥१२॥
añjanābhyañjanonmarda- stry-avalekhāmiṣaṁ madhu srag-gandha-lepālankārāṁs tyajeyur ye bṛhad-vratāḥ
añjana —ointment or powder for decorating the eyes;  abhyañjana —massaging the head;  unmarda —massaging the body;  strī-avalekha —to glance over a woman or to paint a woman's picture;  āmiṣam —meat-eating;  madhu —drinking liquor or honey;  srak —decorating the body with garlands of flowers;  gandha-lepa —smearing the body with scented ointment;  alaṅkārāṇ —decorating the body with ornaments;  tyajeyuḥ —must give up;  ye —those who;  bṛhat-vratāḥ —have taken the vow of celibacy.
TRANSLATION
Brahmacārīs or  gṛhasthas  who have taken the vow of celibacy as described above should not indulge in the following: applying powder or ointment to the eyes, massaging the head with oil, massaging the body with the hands, seeing a woman or painting a woman's picture, eating meat, drinking wine, decorating the body with flower garlands, smearing scented ointment on the body, or decorating the body with ornaments. These they should give up.
TEXTS 13-14
उषित्वैवं गुरुकुले द्विजोऽधीत्यावबुध्य च । त्रयीं साङ्गोपनिषदं यावदर्थं यथाबलम् ॥१३॥ दत्त्वा वरमनुज्ञातो गुरोः कामं यदीश्वरः । गृहं वनं वा प्रविशेत् प्रव्रजेत् तत्र वा वसेत् ॥१४॥